I met Dad for the first time today.
Our home stay dad, Jon, that is.
I've been here for two weeks.
There have definitely been undertones of a situation of sorts with our home stay dad, but Katie and I weren't able to ask about it; we could just confirm that he hadn't been around. There was some talk about him being kicked out, which seemed to be confirmed when his liquor case display was disassembled last week. Then yesterday it was reassembled and low and behold today he was reading the paper at the dining room table. Mostly I just find it funny that I met him for the first time two weeks after I've been living here and Katie and I would laugh over our meals (where we can speak in English about whatever we want without anyone understanding us; for example, I'll say 'I'm going to vomit if I eat any more deep fried pork) saying "wait, where's Dad?"
Crediting Rob's ingenious we have coined the term 'Carb City' for Cesi's meals as they always have four common components: rice, pasta, plantains, potatoes.
Last week, Katie, Jairo and I stayed at one of Jairo's friends, Santi's, finca ('farm') about an hour's drive from Manizales. This finca is not like the farm in Nicaragua by any means but more of a vacation home, or second home. There were two floors; the bottom floor with a kitchen and living room area and then a top floor with four bedrooms for sleeping. Right outside the house there's a pool overlooking hills devoted to farming.
My Spanish was challenged on the Finca, as I was the only one there who could not follow or keep up with the conversation. The hardest thing was trying to understand the rules to the drinking games we played in Spanish. I think most of the friends there thought I was pretty quiet; which is not the case por su puesto. I am so jealous of Katie's fluency and her ability to almost entirely understand and express what she wants to in Spanish!!!
Katie and I along with another World Teacher, Geraldine, have taken up Salsa classes at a place run by The Colombian Richard Simmons just down the street. There are great photographs of our dance instructor in his prime wearing much-too-tight outfits unbuttoned much-too-low exposing much-too-much chest hair that are fabulous and probably the main reason I keep showing up to dance class.
The first class was a disaster of trying to mimic seemingly simple dance moves with two left feet. I actually feel like that character in 'Best in Show' with two left feet when I dance. Nonetheless, it's fun to embarrass yourself and one of the older gentlemen in class took it upon his personal responsibility to make sure I at least was only two steps behind what everyone else was doing, and his effort was much appreciated.
Last weekend Katie left for Cartehena for 2 days to have teacher meetings, and I decided to try a different dance class that was a combination of sorts. Not knowing what to expect, I showed up and it ended up being more of a jazzercise-workout type of dance class, which I wouldn't have minded, if I hadn't upped the anti on my morning run routine around the soccer stadium that day. By the end of class, my legs felt like guava jelly and I was ready to get out of there; the first one with my jacket and bag in tow headed straight for the door. The entire class is taught in Spanish, of course, so I don't really understand what's going on completely but am able to understand and observe enough to get by. As I was reaching for the door, however, The Colombian Richard Simmons made an announcement that I had come all the way from The United States to take his dance classes and the entire class applauded for me, which was more embarrassing than not being able to dance.
This past Monday, another World Teacher, Pam, joined us for our weekly Salsa class and it was the most absurd one yet. We're convinced that The Colombian Richard Simmons was just showing off, and his legs would work double time- criss-crossing and kicking in indecipherable rhythms and then we would have to do what he did: a complete failure. Pam spent the class sitting on a chair laughing and I laughed with her, it was too ridiculous to try and keep up with this salsa dancing (but in all seriousness, Katie more or less kept up and Geraldine did, too).
While Katie was gone at teacher meetings last weekend in Cartehena, I enjoyed finishing reading 'The Motorcycle Diaries' and I adventured to Bosques Popular, which is the nearby park. I got on the right bus I needed across the street from our house, and took Katie's instructions on how to get to the park. She said that I couldn't miss it, but apparently I did as I was on the bus for longer than I thought I should be and didn't remember passing a park. I asked a woman on the bus who said we'd passed it a while back, but the bus eventually turned around. When we got to The End of the Line and it was just me and the bus driver, I told him I was a stupid American who didn't know where Bosque Popular was and would it be possible for me to stay on as he went back the way we came. The bus driver was really nice and did just that, and alerted me when we got to Bosque Popular.
I spent the rest of the day sitting on a tree stump in the park drawing. Since my Nature Drawing class I took last year, I haven't devoted as much time as I would like to my kindergarden-esque, black ink, 2-dimensional drawings that look as if I'm trying to be an amateur. I'm fond of the lack of detail and general oddness of these drawings, and it's fun to just sit and draw.
I love that I have time to just read and draw, and knowing that my life is going to be planned and busy down to the minute when I get back to Burlington in the fall, I am really enjoying all the time I have to devote to just reading and drawing here.
Katie and I made a 'bucket list' of things I needed to accomplish while being in Manizales the day I got here, and I am officially crossing off 'learning to like coffee' from the list. Even if it is leche con cafe instead of cafe con leche, I'm hooked.
Yesterday I went with Katie for the second time to accompany her at school.
The first day I went with Katie to school, I did not know what to do to help and it was incredibly frustrating to watch these kindergarden and first graders literally running amuck in class not listening to anything and talking the entire class.
Katie is such a great teacher, with patience and fun games and activities planned for the students, and some of the students are such little shits that literally Katie is yelling over the students at times to try and get the student's attention, but if the students don't want to learn, then how can someone teach them?
Bracing myself for the monstrosities to come for my second day visiting Katie's school, we went to her fourth grade and fifth grade classes. The morning went so well, and I played Vanna White playing 'Memory' with pictures and words describing fruits and vegetables taped on a wall. The kids were so well behaved and their pronunciations and knowledge of English was great! These students were more advanced than some of the adults I worked with in language exchange classes in Nicaragua and I was really impressed.
During the second class, fifth grade, the students were working on question words; who, what, why, when, where and how (won't you tell me the answer now). When they were done with their activities, Katie had the students ask me questions. This activity worked really well and the students now know that my favorite soccer team is Ghana, my favorite singer is Hannah Montana (a little white lie to get the kids excited), I am 21 years old, my birthday is December 20th, and I live in Vermont.
I reminded Katie about when she brought me in to her first grade class for Show and Tell for a day where everyone had to bring in something that started with the letter 'S' and she brought me for Sister. I apparently said that I was going to come with wearing my best dressed for the occasion so that "all of the boys would fall in love with me" (this probably meant wearing my sweatshirt with a picture of my guinea pig and me on it and my Wizard of Oz ruby red slippers). We were laughing about this when a group of boys no older than 10 were staring at me, and Katie and I both agreed that I finally succeeded at making 'all the boys fall in love with me' (unfortunately this was about 16 years too late, but I'll count my successes).
At one point Katie drew a map of the US and drew Colorado, Chicago, and Vermont to show where our parents live and where we both live in the US. I overheard one of the boys in the front row mumbling to himself, "Colorado...Chicago....Vermont," and it was just about the sweetest thing.
The second half of the day didn't run as smoothly as the first half. The students were bouncing off the walls and after trying everything Katie could think of to no avail, she finally told the students that if they didn't want to learn then she didn't want to teach and we walked out of the class early.
I definitely don't have the patience to be a teacher, but Katie loves it. And if she loves it after dealing with so many of these ADD, crazy, little shitheads, then she must really love teaching. I admire her ability to stay sane in these situations and for the knack she has for teaching. It's been incredible to watch and I'm so proud of her!
As for me, I'll keep helping her as much as I can with coloring pictures for activities and cutting worksheets- and leave the patience and repetition of teaching to the expert.